Can you speak more about your bigender identity? I've read 2 of your posts on being bigender but can I ask you about why that label feels right for you, maybe some advice for people who might be bigender? Also if you know of any other blogs run by bigender people I'd love to follow them!
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anagnori:

Sure.

The label “bigender” is an oversimplification for me. If I wanted to be as accurate as possible, I’d say it’s more like different parts of my personality feel like they’re male, female, ungendered, or somewhere in between. It’s kind of like a mosaic with some parts red, some blue, some pink or cyan, and some white.

Some bigender folks feel like they shift in between one gender and another, like genderfluid folks do. Some feel like we’ve got both genders going on at the same time, and may not “shift” much. Others have a little of both those traits.

I went with the label “bigender” because it was important for me to acknowledge that I had some feelings in common with my assigned gender (female), but also some that were strongly not female, and much closer to “male.” It was hard for me to accept that I didn’t have to question my identity all over again every time my feelings shifted—I am allowed to be complicated, and just because I feel closer to one thing sometimes doesn’t mean my other feelings are less meaningful or real.

"Do I contradict myself? Very well, then I contradict myself; I am large, I contain multitudes.” - Walt Whitman

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the-jing:

Me on Tumblr

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snarkydiscolizard:

"i’m sad and idk how to feel better"

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"i don’t know what to draw"

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"i always mess up"

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"BUT I SUCK"

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funimationentertainment:

i hate it when ppl be like “ur favorite anime is shit”

of course it is. im shit too. its a perfect combination. get out of here and let me roll around in my trash anime and be happy with my filth life

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supernaturally-marvelous:

twinkletwinklelittletardis:

ifell-through-theice:

marco-the-cutie:

allmysecretdaydreams:

How is this not the best thing? No period AND you get to be a guy for a week

I GET TO HAVE A DICK FOR A WEEK??? SIGN ME UP

*Presses the button like no tomorrow*

THINK OF THE COSPLAY OPPORTUNITIES

if someone asks me what the girls on tumblr are like, i’m showing them this post

supernaturally-marvelous:

twinkletwinklelittletardis:

ifell-through-theice:

marco-the-cutie:

allmysecretdaydreams:

How is this not the best thing? No period AND you get to be a guy for a week

I GET TO HAVE A DICK FOR A WEEK??? SIGN ME UP

*Presses the button like no tomorrow*

THINK OF THE COSPLAY OPPORTUNITIES

if someone asks me what the girls on tumblr are like, i’m showing them this post

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latulas:

U WNANA FUKCINGN GO?? ????? grab an icecream together or something because u are attractive

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trust:

"all girls dress the same"

trust:

"all girls dress the same"

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anagnori:

"Oh please, you’re only identifying as [thing] because you heard about it on Tumblr."

Well gee, maybe if there were proper resources out there, public visibility and community support for people like us, we wouldn’t have to wait until we randomly stumbled across a post on Tumblr to understand what we are.

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morelikesnakejailattractive:

Favorite joke of 2014

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teapayne:

Bob is like one of the most stereotypical names but how many bobs do you actually know

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Writing the dramatic death scene

misslsaddy:

maxkirin:

In your head:

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On paper:

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So accurate.

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